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From the Counseling Center: Top Tips from Our Therapists

Pictured: Jennifer Kaparstek Klein
 
by Jennifer Naparstek Klein, Psy. D
 
Jan. 22, 2025: Our team of therapists recently had a chance to reflect on our many collective years of work and ponder what lessons we have taken from our explorations with clients. We each took on the challenge of identifying one idea…one takeaway…one nugget of wisdom that we try to use regularly in our own lives.  We couldn’t resist sharing the compilation that emerged.  We hope you find it helpful and inspiring.  
Dick Shoup: In relationships, don’t take anything personally because, by and large, it is not meant personally. Others’ struggles are their own.
Janice Moore: Our efforts in life don't have to be perfect to be OK. Sometimes, we allow the perfect to prevent the good, so it is advisable to tolerate the good enough.
Jennifer Jordan: When working through a problem with seemingly contrasting opinions, feelings or perspectives, always consider BOTH/AND rather than EITHER/OR. By recognizing that two things can be true simultaneously, we have greater opportunity for growth, compassion, connection and solutions.  
Jennifer Klein: It is always better to authentically tell others what you wish from them, both regarding actions or feelings, rather than be disappointed that they don’t know what you need. Best to speak it aloud and give others the optimal opportunity to be all they can for you in a relationship, rather than hope they will instinctively know.
Kathy Cosgrove: Not choosing to do something is a choice. Take opportunities to utilize your power and make choices, even when they feel scary and hard.
Lynn Evansohn: When challenged by life we can always do MORE than we had imagined.  Trust yourself to explore the struggle and dive deep.  In our core is the capacity to understand more, listen more deeply and extend compassion to ourselves and others.
Natalie Redcross: Focus on the type of giver you are, rather than what kind of receiver–or whether you receive enough. Consider that how you give attracts others who match your energy and spirit and therefore will position you to receive what you need.
Virgil Roberson: There is some part of every person that can be reached, can be connected to, and with which we can find commonality. If we look hard enough, and open ourselves, we will find resonance. That openness allows the ability to validate/acknowledge the other, which does not necessarily mean agreement, but gives the foundation for positive communication with one another.

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Bereavement

The Bereavement Center of Westchester

670 White Plains Road
Scarsdale, New York 10707 
(914) 787-6158

Assisted Living Facilities

Sunrise Senior Living

500 North Columbus Avenue
Mount Vernon, New York 10552
914-667-5660
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The Osborn

101 Theall Road
Rye, New York 10580
914-921-2200

Chemical Dependency Services

The Maxwell Institute

The Maxwell Institute of St. Vincent's Westchester offers outpatient chemical dependency treatment and education services for adults, adolescents and their families. Treatment includes individual and group psychotherapy, couples counseling, and psychiatric evaluation and medication management when indicated. The Institute welcomes individuals and family members who are experiencing marital and/or work-related distress as a result of alcoholism and other forms of chemical dependency.

The Maxwell Institute also offers community education services through its programs in drug and alcohol prevention in the schools. For persons wishing to become credentialed alcoholism and substance abuse counselors (CASACS) in New York State, the "Maxtrain" program provides the 350 classroom education hours that are an important part of the credentialing requirements.

The Maxwell Institute is grateful for the support of The Community Fund of Bronxville-Eastchester-Tuckahoe.

92 Yonkers Ave
Tuckahoe, NY 10707
(914) 337-6033

www.stvincentswestchester.org/maxwell

Counseling Services

Counseling Center

Founded in 1971, the mission of the Counseling Center “is to provide a wide range of psychotherapeutic and counseling services to individuals, couples and families by a staff of highly trained, experience and dedicated psychotherapists.
Director: Virgil Roberson

The Counseling Center
180 Pondfield Road Bronxville,
New York 10708
914-793-3388

Dentists
Once Upon a Tooth Pediatric Dentistry
 
266 White Plains Road #C1
Eastchester, NY 10709
914-348-4348
 
Dr. Henry A. Blom

10 Studio Arcade
Bronxville, New York 10708
914-337-1157

Bronxville Dental Care

Jenny A.  Kanganis, D.D.S.

Guy N. Minoli, D.D.S.

Since 1994, Dr. Kanganis and Dr. Minoli of Bronxville Dental Care have been leaders in the dental community, providing exceptional dentistry to generations of Bronxville families. They have a long history of excellence and have earned a reputation built on trust, compassion, and dedication. Drs. Kanganis and Minoli believe in a conservative, holistic, and minimally invasive approach to dentistry. Bronxville Dental Care welcomes patients of all ages and offers a comprehensive range of services, including cosmetic and restorative dentistry, implants, and pediatric dentistry. Dr. Kanganis especially loves treating children. As a mother herself of two recent Bronxville High School grads, she understands the importance of helping children to feel comfortable during their visits, while earning their trust and teaching them to become active participants in their oral health.

20 Studio Arcade

Bronxville, New York 10708

(914) 337-6536 
www.bronxvilledentalcare.com

Dr. Anthony Fiore

44 Pondfield Road
Bronxville, New York 10708
914-337-3863

Dr. Quentin M. Murphy

77 Pondfield Road
Bronxville, New York 10708
914-337-1004

Scarsdale Pediatric Dental

777 Post Rd.
Scarsdale, NY 10583-5000 
Phone: 914. 472. 9090 
http://www.scarsdalepediatricdental.com/

Dr. Michael J. Vitale

1 Pondfield Road
Bronxville, New York 10708
914-337-8430

Dermatology

Dr. Lesa Kelly

77 Quaker Ridge Road
New Rochelle, New York
914-637-2663

Dr. Neil Goldberg

77 Pondfield Road Ste 2
Bronxville, New York 10708

Ear, Nose, and Throat

Dr. Mark Fox

ENT and Allergy Associates
1 Elm Street
Tuckahoe, New York 10707

Home Care

Lawrence Home Care of Westchester

670 White Plains Road
Scarsdale, NY 10707
(914) 787-6158
www.lawrencehomecare.org

Hospice

Jansen Hospice and Pallative Care

670 White Plains Road
Scarsdale, New York 10583
(914) 787-6158

Hospitals

NewYork-Presbyterian Westchester

NewYork-Presbyterian Westchester provides access to primary care physicians and specialists from ColumbiaDoctors, the faculty practice Columbia University Irving Medical Center and NewYork-Presbyterian Medical Group Westchester.

The hospital includes a cancer center, maternity center, breast health center, two cardiac catheterization labs, and a state-designated Stroke Center. 

55 Palmer Avenue in Bronxville

914-787-1000 Main

Internal Medicine Physicians

Dr. Anne Galloway

77 Pondfield Road
Bronxville, New York 10708
914-337-4986

Dr. Kerrianne Page

14 Studio Arcade
914-779-9066

Dr. Raymond Chow

700 White Plains Road
Scarsdale, New York

Obstetrician/Gynecologist

Dr. Polly Kanganis

4 Studio Arcade, Bronxville, NY 10708
Bronxville, New York 10708
914-771-9441

Dr. Thomas J. Rubeo Jr. MD
Bronxville Women's Care, Pllc
One Pondfield Road, Suite 302
Bronxville, NY 10708

Orthodontists

Dr. Patricia Halloran

55 Park Avenue
Bronxville, New York 10708
914-337-1239

Dr. Joseph Ciccio

1 Pondfield Road
Bronxville, New York 10708

Orthopedics

Dr. Peter Rizzo

77 Pondfield Road
914-337-1118

Dr. Michael Elia

1 Stone Place
Bronxville, New York 10708

Pediatrics

Westchester Health Pediatrics (formerly Children’s Medical Practice of Bronxville)
1 Elm Street
Tuckahoe, New York 10707
914-337-7474

Scarsdale Pediatric Associates
2 Overhill Road Suite 220
Scarsdale, New York 10580
914-725-0800

Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine
495 Central Avenue
Scarsdale, New York

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